My eldest son is truly going to stress me to death.

I am writing you today for that reason.  I just need to understand and know where things are going for him.

He got into trouble with the law last July and was arrested for drug related offenses.  After incarceration (one month) he went into a Christian drug rehab program.  He has been there since August 2006. He had additional charges added while incarcerated that he has a sentencing hearing scheduled for Jan 29th. The judge said he would either give him one-year county jail or two years prison.  I must say that for what the offense was, he deserves the sentence.

He recently told me that he had to leave the program he is in and wants to come to one near me.  Because I have four younger children in the house, I really need insight as to whether he has changed, or if he is deceiving me as addicts sometimes do. 

Please, please look into his future and tell me what you see.  Even if it is bad, please let me know.  I believe strongly in psychic abilities and know that you can tell my anxiety and stress over this situation.

Any help you can give me would be GREATLY appreciated.

Protective Parent

Dear Protective Parent,

I did a relationship spread on you and your son. Your attitude shows great love toward your son with an element of blindness because of that love.

Your son’s attitude is one of reception, or I might say, that he will flow with whatever events he needs to flow with to get what he wants. According to this spread, there’s a good reason why you don’t totally trust him. He did not have to leave the program he was in and you don’t have the whole story there; he’s just hoping to make this process easier on him. He has yet to learn humbleness – he’s still expecting the world to cater to him.

According to the cards, he is still addicted to something (whether or not he’s actually using anything) because he still wants the high and it’s the only world he really knows. He has not yet gotten to the point where life itself IS the high.

I would not recommend that he move closer to your family at this time. The cards say that he finally decides to deal with his repressed anger and hurt by the time he’s twenty-five years old. AND, I would tell him that he has to decide to not be angry at the world.

The next three years for him needs be about his commitment to his own education and mental well-being, finishing school or learning a trade. This is a young man that gets into trouble when bored.

Lastly, his life turns around at age twenty-five and it’s important that he earns that breakthrough. The best thing I can say to you to say to him is:
”Tony, I don’t think now is a good time for you to move to here because I’m stretched pretty thin right. You’re smart, good-looking and resourceful; I would be doing you a disservice if I didn’t let you figure this one out on your own. Use this opportunity to better yourself. Please keep me updated on your progress, but I need to step back and let you figure this out.”

Thank you for writing me,

Mona