Dear Mona,
I am a stay at
home mom of three and have been married to my husband for almost 5
years. I recently undertook a home business opportunity and have
been frustrated with the results so far. I'm really working hard to
get this business moving but it's putting a strain on my marriage.
I need to know if my marriage and/or business will thrive soon or
should I just give up the business.
Vegas Business
Mom
Dear Vegas
Business Mom,
My cards say
you haven’t given the business enough time yet. I get that your
husband didn’t really think you were serious, so in subtle ways he’s
not being very supportive, i.e., engaging the kids so you can
concentrate on your business. Don’t misinterpret that - in other
words, don’t blame him because the business hasn’t taken off as
quickly as you had hoped.
You have three
very powerful cards: one is called The Magician (in the traditional
Tarot deck) and in your case sits directly on “the issue.” It
indicates a person using their gifts to be a success in the material
world. The second card speaks to justice, so your hard work will pay
off (it also addresses the issue of fairness in your relationship –
I would say that your husband is feeling a little put out).
The most
important card in your reading addresses potential and it speaks to
the action you must take to make this business a success. You
wouldn’t have decided to do this if you didn’t think it would bring
in good money. Dig in for the next five months like it really is a
priority and decide that if you don’t see the results you want by
the end of 2007, you’ll consider another option.
Discuss with
your husband that you really want to make this work and come up with
a workable schedule for the kids, events, your business, and most
importantly, time with him. Again, you haven’t devoted enough time
to it yet and “the market” might be a challenge. I think you’ll see
real rewards from your efforts as of November 2007.
Lastly, no one
in this entire world is like you. Stop thinking that anyone else’s
success is greater than yours. Be more you, that’s the secret to
your prosperity.
Thank you for
writing,
Mona