Dear Bonnie,

The months for beneficial change are between June and October this year, so if a move will happen this year it will be between those months. He’s really not supposed to ever totally retire, because he’s a man that has to keep his mind engaged - his boredom will dive you nuts!
If you stop stressing marriage, he’ll be with you for the rest of your life. At this point for the two of you, marriage doesn’t make good financial sense to him. He thinks being with someone is a on-going choice. He is a complicated man. I see that he may have had to deal with rough issues as a child, or had to learn to control his temper. Whatever his intimate holdback, it has nothing to do with you. He views you as the best woman he’s ever had in his life.

Ideally, it would be best if the two of you decided to purchase a house (or condo) together (50/50 ownership, in his and your name). Again, it’s the marriage issue that has him stuck and that’s why you’re not married already. So, if instead you treat the partnership of the two of you as though it IS a partnership, he’ll always be with you.

So, don’t even hint about marriage, simply live in the attitude that he’s with you by choice, because after all, you’re the best woman ever!

Thank you for writing! Mona

Readings by Mona are for your consideration and entertainment.