Dear Mona,

My husband is at a turning point in his life. He is very confused and not sure what direction he should be going. He is looking at a change. He's not sure what to do. His company is starting to downsize—he's been with them for 25 years. What should he do? What do you see for him?

He is looking at changing jobs. He feels he has no qualification for any other type of work here in Las Vegas. He is at a loss. He has thought it might be fun to be a poker dealer here in Las Vegas and has started classes at a dealer school. He's an Aquarius. What do you see in his future with being able to be a poker dealer? Is this something that will happen for him and when?

If you could help us with this it would greatly be appreciated.

Concerned for her man

Dear CFHM,

First and foremost, your husband has to realize that this downsizing has nothing to do with the quality of his work, how smart he is, or how good of a person he is.

I think he'll do a wonderful job as a dealer in Las Vegas! He'll have to probably work some unusual shifts as first but I don't think it will take long for him to get a somewhat "normal" shift. My cards say that he'll have a job within three weeks of finishing school and it should be his goal to be willing to learn all the table games at the casino.

Here's how he gets the shift and/or game he wants to work even faster: He's an Aquarius—no one on this planet can be funnier than an Aquarius when he puts his mind to it. The more engaging he is the faster he'll be moved into exactly the position he wants. He needs to approach this new career path as fun, and when he does people will want to work around him.

Lastly, I want to let you know that you and your husband have a really loving and supportive relationship…you really are soul mates.

Thank you for writing!
Mona