It has become apparent to me in the last year that several of my female supporters are worried about their future security.

 

I would have to be honest and say that has been foremost on my mind for sometime now.

 

It is not so easy these days to take things with a grain of salt and that includes dating.  For those of us that find ourselves female, single and 50, we have to be concerned about how much personal time with whom and what’s in it for us?

 

(I can hear the groans out there from my male readers and some of my female followers.  Well, put a sock in it!)

 

The reality is that no longer can we look at dating as just fun…cause if we spend too much time at this stage in life with Mr. Wrong, it’s SCARY!...Bad choices can make for a very scary future.  I don’t know about the rest of you gals but being a bag lady doesn’t appeal to me!

 

I have known so many smart and successful single women that have let a man bring them down physiologically and financially.  Stop the self-destruction today!

 

After all, the statistics prove that what women are looking for most in their man are both security and intimacy.  Don’t hesitate to ask for his credit scores before you become intimate.  Sound could hearted?  Not at all if you consider the number of women who find themselves alone and broke at an undesirable societal age because they didn’t ask.

 

Please remember a couple of things my fellow femme fetale… If he is truly Mr. Right, he will be fun and concerned for your future security and in no way scary...also, Christmas is just around the corner.  Remember ladies, real estate, mutual funds and diamonds ARE A GIRLS BEST FRIEND!!

 

Gennifer with a G

 

To ask Gennifer a question just write her at AskGennifer@VegasCommunityOnline.com