5 Ways to Rev Up Your Irresistibility
“What you do, the way you think, makes you beautiful.”
~Scott Westerfeld
EVERYONE KNOWS THAT there are just some people who command attention and draw people to them like a magnet. What makes them irresistible? They might not be the most beautiful, the smartest, the richest or the most successful person you know. What they DO have, however, is their belief in themselves and who they are. There’s the old saying, “you are what you eat.” You are also what you think. If you think you’re irresistible…you are.
- What is the most important factor in being Irresistible? The most important factor is…do YOU think you’re irresistible? The first, most important key is how and what you think about yourself. Honestly appraise yourself, learn to accentuate every one of your strengths, internally and externally, and be confident in who you are. Focus on yourself first, then be interesting and interested. Honest self-confidence makes you stand taller, your eyes sparkle and you are present in the moment. In that frame of mind, you attract whatever it is you are seeking.
- What personality trait is key to being Irresistible? An honest, sincere person is irresistible. By honesty, that doesn’t mean saying, “that dress is terrible.” What it mean is, don’t play games. Look people straight in the eye. Listen to what others are saying…REALLY listen. Don’t think about what you’ll say next, or have your eyes darting around the room. Focus all your attention on the person you are with. Compliment people…sincerely. It lets people know you notice and appreciate them and are taking the time to say something. Does that make you irresistible? Oh yes!
- How can my attitude reflect how Irresistible I am? Smile. That’s best thing anyone can do. Every day, the first thing to do is look in the mirror and smile at yourself. Smile and tell yourself that you are happy to be you. Flaws and all. Loving yourself is the first, most important prerequisite for loving others, being lovable and irresistible. It is important to remember that when we make facial expressions, we’re basically broadcasting a large amount of information that can be received, read and interpreted by others and that provide cues to our overall emotional state, mental well-being, and attitude. The smile is viewed across most cultures as a sign of friendliness, especially when greeting someone. You can cover up most parts of your body…but people always can see your face…let your face reflect how irresistible you are.
- How can I attract positive attention? Be daring, adventurous, exciting, and spontaneous. Isn’t that who you really are? Take up that hobby you always wanted to, put on that dress or suit you really love, but have been too timid to wear. Apply for the dream job you’re not sure you’re qualified for. Recognize your uniqueness and expand whatever horizons you want. Being who you really are is definitely irresistible.
- How can I learn the Art of Living my own Life? While it is important to notice what others think about you…it is imperative that you don’t go overboard in that area. What is imperative is that you feel confident and accept yourself. This is living your own life…not other peoples’ lives or living your life to “please” others. If you do that, you are not being true to yourself and that always shows. The most important relationship you have is with yourself. Other peoples’ opinions say much more about them…then you. Learn not to take things “personally.” Don’t be subject to the whims, likes and dislikes of other people. Again, this doesn’t mean not to listen to CONSTRUCTIVE advice or opinions, but it does mean to learn how to separate out whose opinions are helpful and supportive and who is tearing you down. Living your own life and being true to yourself is absolutely irresistible.
